love.

let me tell you a story. there is a girl, she is so bad. and mean. but then the god shows a path for her. she wants to repent. we are not talking about how she changes but look at what kind of way that the god has shown to her, which leads her to be a good person.

through love. we can see that this girl, she has done lots of wrongdoings. and she is a normal person too. she can easily fell in love with any boy. but one day, she feels like crying when she sees a boy. she never talks with the boy. and yet she has a strong feeling towards him, which causes her to change for the better. she knows that if she wants a good guy to be her husband, then she must be a good girl first. starting from that, she never mixes with guys, i mean, she is not going beyond her limit as a muslimah. she confesses this to her friend. slowly she finds out that she loves the boy. i mean, the guy that i have mentioned just now. it is not easy for the girl to cry when it comes to love matters. she cannot hear his voice, she will run away whenever they are very close, and she tells certain people about her love, because she is afraid that he will figure it out. and she tries to get far from him, because she is afraid that she will not be able to concentrate in her prayers. what a pure love, right? she wants a husband that can lead her to be better, that will show her the good path. so she is very careful to take good care of her heart so that she will not do wrong things that can lead to the god's anger or wrath.

she becomes a good girl with this way. actually, there are various ways where human can change for the better. that girl does not changed because she wants to impress the boy. no. it is just she wants something that can bring a pure happiness to her life. she starts with doing lots of prayer, and she feels very contented after doing these things. soon, she is very confident that the god may gives her a good husband, because the god already promises that a good woman is for a good man.

it is not wrong to fell in love, it is about how she controls her feeling from developing sins towards the god. see? to love someone is normal, but the way she tries to control her love, so that the god will give her a good husband to guide her path to the god's love. to the heaven. to a pure happiness.