Salam alaik.
We all feel the urge of defending ourselves when we are being stepped on by someone. Sometimes it feels so hard that we feel like, losing our control and destroy the source.
We don't know until when we can be patient.
We want to tell someone but you don't know who can be your best listener.
We are afraid of loosing the stress but at the same time, our problems become someone's weapon to hit us back whenever we miss it.
We wish to become what we had become before this. That we can easily get mad and people will never have the chance to hurt us. So we can feel that happiness at last, belongs to us.
But then, only Allah is our hope. Tests come to test us, to test our strength, how far we can endure moments that can break us in anytime. Stay strong.
Never let your negative vibes out and affect people around you. Because people are making you as their role model. People are being happy when they are with you. once you burst everything out, those people, will distance themselves from you. When you want to mix with the society, they won't be with you, they won't listen to you, because they lose faith in you.
Remember the Prophet, Muhammad s.a.w. and what did he endure when he was in Taif? Had he been bursting out like what you are thinking right now, Islam will not be spread to the entire world. People wouldn't be attracted to learn and accept Islam wholeheartedly. No.
Cling to Allah more. Cling with your murabbi more. Reread the Prophet's story and apply it in your life. Trust that, people who hurt you, they bring you no benefits at all. Their criticism and hurtful remarks actually will not help you in afterlife. But Allah's blessings, Allah sees you and understands what you feel, and Allah is the one who is going to reward you, with His Jannah, surely.
If you continue to listen to those people, you will gain nothing. Nothing. Pleasing people, what can they guarantee you with? Is Allah's promise not enough for you? Why would you stick to pleasing people when they themselves have no power to free themselves from Allah's fire?
Be like a deaf frog. Listen to no one. Please no one. But continue climbing a pole until it manages to reach the peak of the pole.
Wipe your tears now. The world is nothing.
And then I remember, I used to hurt someone but he never fought me back. He admitted he was wrong. And slowly, two hours later I realised I was the one guilty for being too emotional. I couldn't manage my temper, even after a series of programs I have attended. Because. Simply. Wanting to protect my so-called dignity.
We all feel the urge of defending ourselves when we are being stepped on by someone. Sometimes it feels so hard that we feel like, losing our control and destroy the source.
We don't know until when we can be patient.
We want to tell someone but you don't know who can be your best listener.
We are afraid of loosing the stress but at the same time, our problems become someone's weapon to hit us back whenever we miss it.
We wish to become what we had become before this. That we can easily get mad and people will never have the chance to hurt us. So we can feel that happiness at last, belongs to us.
But then, only Allah is our hope. Tests come to test us, to test our strength, how far we can endure moments that can break us in anytime. Stay strong.
Never let your negative vibes out and affect people around you. Because people are making you as their role model. People are being happy when they are with you. once you burst everything out, those people, will distance themselves from you. When you want to mix with the society, they won't be with you, they won't listen to you, because they lose faith in you.
Remember the Prophet, Muhammad s.a.w. and what did he endure when he was in Taif? Had he been bursting out like what you are thinking right now, Islam will not be spread to the entire world. People wouldn't be attracted to learn and accept Islam wholeheartedly. No.
Cling to Allah more. Cling with your murabbi more. Reread the Prophet's story and apply it in your life. Trust that, people who hurt you, they bring you no benefits at all. Their criticism and hurtful remarks actually will not help you in afterlife. But Allah's blessings, Allah sees you and understands what you feel, and Allah is the one who is going to reward you, with His Jannah, surely.
If you continue to listen to those people, you will gain nothing. Nothing. Pleasing people, what can they guarantee you with? Is Allah's promise not enough for you? Why would you stick to pleasing people when they themselves have no power to free themselves from Allah's fire?
Be like a deaf frog. Listen to no one. Please no one. But continue climbing a pole until it manages to reach the peak of the pole.
Wipe your tears now. The world is nothing.
And then I remember, I used to hurt someone but he never fought me back. He admitted he was wrong. And slowly, two hours later I realised I was the one guilty for being too emotional. I couldn't manage my temper, even after a series of programs I have attended. Because. Simply. Wanting to protect my so-called dignity.
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